This made me very happy when it arrived. It is always nice to try out different bondage gear to see what suits you best. And this was something new for me.
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General
Over and under bondage set is a set of bondage straps that you can attach over and under your mattress and hold you or your partner extra tight and allows for almost no unwanted movement. Usually the straps have different rings you can be attached to, so you also have a lot of positions you can try out. There's nothing you can come up with that you won't be able to do with these sets. And if you have a bed without bars, it's even better, because they can go around the mattress.
First impressions
The product came in a nice sturdy box, which clearly indicated what was inside. The sturdiness of the box gave it an air of luxury, but it wasn't overdone. The cuffs came in a plastic bag, which stood out to me, because there are no instructions at all. Now it's mostly pretty obvious, but an instruction booklet would have been useful.
The set consists of neoprene straps, the strap set for the mattress and four loose (ankle/wrist) cuffs that can be attached to it. The straps are adjustable so they'll fit almost any mattress, the crossing unfortunately isn't adjustable and may be looser on some beds. For example, we have a bed that's 1.80m by 2.20m and the crossing still wasn't quite tight on the mattress. It was immediately obvious that everything was high quality and both the straps and cuffs were very strong.
Using it
We really enjoyed using the set, my partner was secure but comfortable. The cuffs were fairly gently on the skin and didn't leave any marks. And the materials are incredibly strong. The only drawback is that the cross is so loose that you aren't kept that tight on the mattress. And after your lovemaking session, you have to loosen the whole set because the straps don't lie flat and you can't sleep on them. Not even with a separate extra sheet on top.
The conclusion
The conclusion is that this set is good if you don't have a headboard or bars on your bed. The straps are sturdy and not too stiff. A big drawback is that the straps do not lie flat and the straps that cross over the bed cannot be tightened. As a result, you are generally too loose under the straps. However, the straps themselves are very sturdy and you can let your imagination run wild to a lot of different positions. I also think this could be good for beginners who are a bit anxious about not being able to move at all.
