10 sex taboos that are perfectly normal

Slowly but surely, love and sex taboos are fading away in many countries around the world. There’s more attention being given to gay rights, women’s emancipation, and gender neutrality than ever before. Talking about sex in a casual way is also becoming more normalised. Despite this “sexual awakening”, you sometimes notice very little of it in practice. Chances are that you may have your doubts about certain things that happen between the sheets. Still, the following 10 sexual acts are perfectly normal!

1. Sexting/virtual sex

We’re all familiar with it: exchanging sexy photos and having arousing sex conversations via WhatsApp or Snapchat. It happens every day behind many bedroom doors, but people don’t really talk about it that much. Apparently, most people find it weird to be digitally involved in sex, while they know that so many others are doing it as well.

Of course, it’s anything but strange. In our increasingly digital society, we do almost everything in the virtual world. Enjoying sex virtually is part of that. Just be careful which parts of yourself you expose.

2. Using sex toys

In many households, the word “sex toys” is often met with some loud giggling. Our sales figures show that many people buy toys, but few talk about them openly and transparently. A feeling of discomfort and shame still dominates.

“A sex toy stimulates self-pleasure and enriches your sex life.”

Introducing a toy into your bedroom is a big step for many. Tip: just do it! A sex toy raises your self-esteem and enriches your sex life. Just go through the motions, and a whole new world will open up for you.

3. Sex during your period

Just like the motto says “a real skipper also sails the red sea,” sex during your period is very normal and common. Despite the fact that the bed can end up looking like a violent crime scene after sex, it’s not strange to have sex during your period. However, always prepare for the moment suprême. Make sure to lay down a towel or get some action in the shower.

Not really into losing blood when you have sex during your menstrual cycle? A menstrual cup or sponge tampon without string helps! Your partner won’t feel a thing during penetration.

4. Anal sex

If you ask couples what they’d still like to try, most are interested in a threesome or anal sex. However, as long as it remains a fantasy, nothing happens. That’s why it’s time to test it out, carefully. Contrary to what many people think, anal sex is much more than just penetration. It is often an end goal. Start with a finger or a slender butt plug.

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Also read: First time anal sex – tips for beginners

5. Role play

Role-playing games are common in films and pornographic videos. You’ve probably thought at least once about playing the strict teacher or the submissive employee. Since this is a taboo subject, it’s easier said than done. Perhaps you’re afraid that it will be embarrassing and over the top.

Nevertheless, buying role-play lingerie is a great addition to your sex life. You won’t regret it! It’ll either end in hot sex or you’ll simply have a great laugh.

Also read: 24 sexy role play ideas you’ve got to try out!

6. Spanking & biting

Gentle biting or a spanking is often associated with BDSM, while it can be very nice as well during a “regular” sex session. A little spanking from time to time creates a kinky sex atmosphere. Who knows what new pleasure it’ll awaken in you!

Experiencing a certain degree of light pain can be stimulating. However, it’s important to know each other’s limits, so that it is and remains pleasant for both parties.

7. Sex with multiple people

Did you know that group sex used to be very common? Egyptians held orgies at the beginning of spring to honour their gods, and the Greeks enjoyed group sex during festivals. It was only hundreds of years later, when the Christian and Islamic faiths conquered the world, that sex with several people became taboo.

“Egyptians used to hold orgies to celebrate the beginning of spring.”

Now that the spirits are becoming freer around the world, it’s high time to enjoy threesomes and/or group sex again. If all parties agree, there is no reason for a taboo, is there?

8. Watching porn together

Looking for a new sex adventure with your bed partner? Then change Netflix & chill into Pornhub & chill! Watching porn together and getting it on with each other is very exciting. Strangely enough, watching porn alone has become fairly normal, but watching porn together is still rare. This can change!

9. Sex without an orgasm

Sex used to be mostly about procreation. And what’s the most important thing you need to do to achieve that goal? Right, climaxing. However, we’re way beyond that! Orgasming is no longer the ultimate goal. The sensation of being intimate together is much more important and much more fun.

Take the pressure off climaxing. Do you come too quickly? Or do you have trouble reaching that point? Don’t worry about it and focus on long foreplay and other sexual acts. Don’t forget to use a couple’s toy as well!

Also read: The best tips against premature ejaculation

10. BDSM

Perhaps the biggest sex taboo is on BDSM. Sex with handcuffs, whips, and domination is wildly popular worldwide, while it’s still barely talked about. The problem is that BDSM is a broad concept. When people hear the term, they immediately picture the most extreme form of BDSM.

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Some let themselves be locked in a cage while getting a good whipping. Others stick to a sexy outfit, a whip, and a dominant attitude. Do it in a way that challenges you, and above all, keep it fun!

Also read: An introduction to BDSM

What do you think is the biggest sex taboo?