Purely for relaxation, to prevent back pains, or when your stiff muscles are causing you trouble, there is always a good reason to enjoy a massage. There are plenty of different types of massages these days, but you should seek help from a masseuse or go to a wellness centre for most of those. Would you rather treat your partner to an erotic massage? Here you’ll find everything you need to prepare to massage your partner to an intense climax!
Preparing an erotic massage
Warm-up
To get things started, turn up the heating nice and high, preferably to the ‘tropical’ setting. You could also heat a few towels beforehand and cover your partner with them. Also, heat the massage oil by putting it in your microwave for a short time at the lowest setting.
Tip! Take a nice hot shower together before you start so you can get warmed up. The pores will then open up more so that the skin can better absorb the oil.
Comfort
Do the massage in a place, such as on your bed, the floor, or a table, where you can easily reach every part of your partner’s body. If you choose a hard surface, make sure your partner can lie comfortably. Think about using pillows or blankets if necessary.
Massage techniques for a pleasant erotic massage
Think about which massage techniques you’ll be using ahead of time and, of course, which intimate places you will focus on. For instance, start with the back, neck, shoulders, and arms and then make your way down to lower areas of the body such as the buttocks and legs. Then, you can ask your partner to turn over and do the same to the front, saving the most sensitive parts for last. Make sure you don’t leave any part of the body untouched.
Use massage oil
Take about a teaspoon of warm massage oil in your hands and distribute it by rubbing your hands together. Then let your hands glide over your partner’s body like they have a mind of their own. Move over the body from top to bottom and back again with long, firm strokes, both on the front and back of the body.
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The climax of the erotic massage
Okay, you have everything prepared. The room is heated, you’ve got the massage oil on hand, you’ve decided on your massage techniques, and you’ve started pleasing your partner. You’re both getting in the mood! But how do you continue the erotic massage to eventually reach a climax?
Working towards the climax of an erotic massage
By experimenting with your fingers, the palms of your hands, or your entire hand, you give an extra dimension to the massage. After all, you’re applying additional pressure. For instance, experiment with different stroking or circular motions.
Tip! Try using a sex toy. A wand vibrator is great for massages!
The breasts
When massaging the front, let your hands glide upwards from the belly and between the breasts. Glide back via the outsides of the breasts with a circling, flowing motion. Softly, move your fingers towards the nipples and finish by applying gentle pressure.
Read also: These are the 15 most common erogenous zones
The buttocks
Place a hand on each cheek and move your hands in opposite directions. You could also hover above your partner in a squatting position so you can massage the inside of the thighs as well. Massage from the thighs to the buttocks and back.
The intimate places
Apply some extra oil to your hands to massage your partner’s intimate places. For men, you use one hand to go around the head of the penis and the other hand to caress the shaft. Then slowly use your hand to stroke up and down. You could also consider the anus during the massage. You can perform a yoni massage for women: softly massage the labia, squeeze them gently, and then caress or massage the clitoris. You can alternate by using the palm of your hands to trace circles across the entire vagina. You can also involve the woman’s anus during the massage.
Read also: First time anal sex: tips for beginners
The climax
Maybe you want to bring your partner to orgasm. Usually, it shouldn’t take much after such an erotic massage. But if you want, you can end by lying on top of your partner and reach a climax together!
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Do you have tips of your own for a perfect erotic massage? Let us know in the comments!
