How to improve your sex life as a single man?

For many people, sex is a part of their identity. Whether you’re single or not: sex is important to most people. And you definitely don’t need to be in a relationship or have a partner for it. Even as a single man, you can enjoy a satisfying sex life. But how do you do that?

Masturbating is healthy

One of the easiest ways to meet your needs as a single man is by partaking in solo sex. About 80% of men up to the age of 40 masturbate occasionally and it’s also healthy! The good thing about masturbation is that you get to discover for yourself what you like and what you don’t. This way, you learn the best ways to pleasure yourself, but it also provides you with knowledge that you can share with a potential partner in the future. Try experimenting with different techniques or try out different types of stimulation. It’s not just the shaft and head of the penis that can be stimulated. The perineum, the scrotum, anus and prostate are all sensitive spots that deserve some attention.

Also read: The best masturbation techniques for men

Combine it with watching porn

Many men combine masturbating with watching porn. There are a variety of websites online that offer free erotic videos. The types of porn are endless: there is something for every sexual preference. Most websites have a great search function that can guide you to the kinds of videos you like.

Did you know… it’s possible to watch porn through VR goggles nowadays?

However, be aware that the content shown on these erotic websites doesn’t always paint a realistic picture of actual sex. The actors in porn movies or videos are often selected for their attractive appearance, the size of their penis or the appearance of their pussy. The emphasis is usually on the man’s pleasure or, at the very least, on reaching climax. In real life, this could be different.

Experimenting with a sex toy

When masturbating, you could also try experimenting with a sex toy. Masturbators are becoming increasingly popular and come in all different shapes and sizes. The Fleshlight is also a popular toy for men: shaped not unlike a flashlight, but  inside it functions as an artificial vagina (or anus or mouth). Tenga also produces stylish and unique masturbators; the Tenga Egg is the most popular.

Did you know… a prostate massage is very healthy? It prevents prostate problems and can result in an intense orgasm.

A cock ring could also be a good option for you. Push it over the shaft of the penis for firmer and longer-lasting erections because it stops the blood from flowing back. A vibrating cock ring has the added bonus of a vibrating bullet that can stimulate the perineum, the sensitive part of your groin between the anus and scrotum.

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  Hueman - Neptune Vibrating Cock Ring + Remote
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Also read: The best sex toys for men

Try out… a prostate massage

The prostate is one of the most sensitive places to stimulate and is also called the P-spot, or male G-spot. You can already stimulate the prostate by putting pressure on the perineum. But using a prostate stimulator is even better, because it has been explicitly designed to stimulate the prostate anally.

Also read: The pleasure of prostate massage: the male G-spot

Dating as a single man

Besides experimenting with self-sex, you could also consider opening yourself up to going on dates. You’re free to decide whether you want to start dating and what you’re seeking with those dates. Nowadays, it’s relatively easy for a single man to start dating thanks to the rise of various dating apps. Try out what works for you, be open to it and see what (or who) comes.