How to… use a strap-on or strap-on dildo

When you think of a strap-on, you often think of lesbian sex. However, this handy toy is not just for lesbian couples! The strap-on is also very popular with straight couples. But what kind of strap-on should you use? And what should you pay attention to? Read everything you need to know about strap-ons here.

What’s in this article?

• What can you use a strap-on for?
• Pegging
• Types of strap-ons
• How to use a strap-on

What can you use a strap-on for?

The strap-on dildo, also known as a strap-on, is usually worn by a woman to penetrate someone else vaginally, anally or orally. Simply put: she creates a penis for herself.

Although the strap-on seems to be mainly designed for lesbian sex, it’s now being used more and more by heterosexual couples. It’s a versatile toy that can be a great addition to anyone’s sex life.

“A strap-on is usually worn by a woman to penetrate someone else vaginally, anally or orally.”

Pegging

In heterosexual relationships, the woman can penetrate her boyfriend anally with a strap-on dildo. This is called pegging. It’s a common, perfectly normal sexual act.

Many men find anal stimulation very pleasurable, as it stimulates the prostate. The prostate, also called the male G-spot, is a gland located in an area with a large network of nerves. These nerves control bodily functions such as erection and ejaculation. That means stimulating this area can be very pleasurable and intense.

Also read: Pegging – A popular sex trend

Types of strap-ons

The strap-on usually consists of two elements: the strap-on harness and a strap-on dildo. The harness is worn around the hips and the dildo is attached to it. Depending on how you want to use them, different strap-on dildos are available.

Strap-on harness

A strap-on harness is available in different sizes so it can be worn by people of different sizes and in different postures. The size and fit of many harnesses can be changed with adjustable straps. Harnesses that are not adjustable can be bought in a specific size.

Most varieties are made of nylon, polyester or PVC. These materials are comfortable to wear. A leather harness, however, will last longer, although leather is a more vulnerable material and will stretch out over time.

Are you buying a strap-on harness separately from a dildo? Pay attention to the diameter of the toy. It should fit perfectly through the ring of the harness.

Hollow strap-on

The hollow strap-on is the only type of strap-on that can be worn by a man. The dildo is hollow, allowing the man to wear it over the penis like a sleeve. To keep the hollow dildo in place, the hollow strap-on can be attached to the harness.

To be worn by: men.

Double strap-on

The name says it all: the double strap-on consists of two dildos. This is especially suitable for women who want to satisfy their partner, but also want to enjoy themselves at the same time. The inside of the harness has a second dildo that satisfies the wearer.

Please note! For a double strap-on, you need a harness to which two toys can be attached.

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  Strap-on Duo
  You2Toys
  £69.05
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  Hollow Silicone Strap On Dildo with Elastic Straps - Black
  Strap U
  £34.52

Strap-on with suction cup

The dildo with a suction cup is a multifunctional toy that can be easily attached to a harness. It’s also perfect for use during solo sex, as the suction cup can be attached to any smooth surface.

Dildos with suction cups are available in different shapes and sizes. There are dildos with a suitable shape for G-spot or prostate stimulation or double dildos with suction cups. These are ideal for double penetration: simultaneous penetration of the vagina and the anus.

To be worn by: women (heterosexual as well as lesbian).

A dildo with a suction cup is also very suitable for solo sex, for both women and men.

Strapless strap-on

The strapless strap-on is a strap-on without a harness. This dildo is specially designed for women, who can insert the shortest part of the dildo vaginally. The other part is meant to satisfy her partner. The strapless strap-on does not have any straps to keep the dildo in place. That’s why it’s important to choose a size of dildo that’s not too small to minimise the risk of it ‘popping out’.

To be worn by: women (heterosexual as well as lesbian).

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  Revolver II Vibrating Strapless Strap On Dildo
  Strap U
  £54.38
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  Strap-on Dildo Set - Black
  You2Toys
  £56.10

How to use a strap-on dildo

To get the most out of a strap-on, there are a few things to bear in mind:

• Choose the type of strap-on you want to use. This depends on how you like to penetrate or be penetrated.
• Next, make sure the harness is the right size. The sexual experience is most pleasant when the harness is comfortable to wear.

Have you found the right model and the right size? Choose the right moment to enjoy this toy.

• First, put on the harness. You can usually step into it and adjust the straps on the side. Make sure the harness is not too tight.
• Attach the dildo to the harness.
• Don’t start penetrating straight away. Build up the tension until you’re fully aroused. You can first gently massage the anus and then start fingering.
• Use plenty of lubricant, especially when penetrating anally.

Please note! Never use the dildo for anal penetration and then go directly to vaginal penetration. Bacteria in the rectum can enter the vagina via the dildo, causing potentially nasty infections.

Tip! For a man, lying on your back with your knees bent is an ideal position for pegging. Doggy style is also an easy position for penetrating a partner with a strap-on.