Safe sex first – how can you get through summer safely?

Sex is wonderful, but it’s not always without risk. In the heat of the moment, you sometimes forget the dangers of unsafe sex. That’s why this article shares 5 tips with you to make sure you can enjoy sex without worry. Stick to this advice and you’ll limit the risks of any unwanted consequences!

Summer is the ultimate season for unsafe sex. You go out a lot, you attend festivals, go camping or stay at hotels… and temptations are always there. That sexy person you meet on a hot evening gets your blood pumping and your heart beating faster. Before you know it, the two of you end up in a hotel room. And then what? No condoms? No sex!

Also read: How to survive sex during a heatwave

#1 Always do it safely

STDs are more common than you think, so always use a condom. The excuse of “but I can’t feel anything with a condom” is no longer acceptable in 2021! There are so many different condoms that you can always find the right fit and feel. Check out ultra-thin condoms, tailored condoms, stimulating condoms, and orgasm-delaying condoms.

#2 Be clear about your boundaries & respect those of others

Just because you’ve gone home with someone doesn’t mean that you have to have sex with them. And if you’re kissing someone and you’re lying half-naked in bed, it doesn’t mean that you have to take it further. If you don’t want something, you don’t do it. It’s simple. Saying no once should be enough.

“If you’re kissing someone and you’re lying half-naked in bed, it doesn’t mean that you have to take it further.”

Are you the one who wants sex, but does you partner say that they’d rather not? Accept this and don’t push them! Do you doubt whether the person really doesn’t want to, because you think they’re just a bit shy? Just ask them straight up: “Do you want to go on or do you want me to stop?”. By asking them in this way, you avoid any misunderstandings, and you give your partner the chance to make it clear what they want.

#3 Let your friends know where you are

It’s always a sensible and safe idea to let your friends know where you are. Have you met someone at a festival or in the pub and do you want to go home with them? Let your friends know where you’re going or share your live location. We don’t want to scare you, but if the person you’re with is a stranger, you should always be careful! Sharing a live location is easy and gives you and your friends a sense of safety and security.

#4 Be mindful of what you drink

Know your limits. Also when it comes to alcohol and drug use! Many people become more aroused by alcohol and their boundaries get blurry. It can make you do things that you regret later. Minimise the risk and watch how much you drink! Do you feel like spending an evening enjoying that alcohol buzz? Of course you can, but ask your friends to keep an eye on you.

“Alcohol makes you less inhibited, and you’re more likely to do things that you’ll regret later.”

#5 No intercourse

You’ve met someone and you really want to sleep together, but neither of you has any condoms with them… Oh no! Don’t worry, you can bring each other to a great orgasm without intercourse. Kissing, dry humping and hand jobs are completely safe. Oral sex does carry the risk of STDs, but you won’t have to worry about unplanned pregnancy. Do you know your sex partner and are you both sure that you’re healthy without any STDs? Then oral sex is also an option.

What’s your go-to tip when it comes to safe sex?