The best Valentoys for a LAT relationship!

Are you in a LAT relationship and looking for a way to give your sex life a spicy touch, without having to go the distance? Well, your Valentine’s Day will be more intimate than ever… With these Valentoys, you’ll create extra sparks, passion, and romance in the bedroom in no time. ❤

What is a LAT relationship?

In a LAT relationship, both partners have a monogamous relationship but don’t live together in the same house. It’s a form of relationship that has become increasingly popular in recent years. Sounds kind of nice to not have any bickering about emptying the dishwasher, right? Whether you feel the need to wait a little longer before deciding to live together or you simply find it more exciting to meet at set times, do what feels right for you!

Teledildonics

Teledil-what? Yes, teledildonics! These are sex toys that can be controlled from a distance, through an internet connection. You don’t even have to stay within 10 metres of each other (if your partner is wearing a vibrating egg, for example). You can transmit sensations and touches to your partner’s sex toys, allowing you to be intimate from a distance. Whoa!

Also read: Play at a distance: our top 5 toys with an app

Remote-controlled Valentoys

Vibrating eggs

The vibrating egg is already a classic toy for remote play. However, the distance usually only goes up to about 10 metres, so if you don’t live together, you won’t get much pleasure out of it. However, when using the Magic Sundae from Magic Motion, all you have to do is connect the toy to the app and invite your partner. Hand over control and let your partner add all kinds of vibration patterns.

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  Magic Motion - Magic Sundae App-Controlled Vibrating Egg
  Magic Motion
  £44.88 £37.11
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  Love Distance Range - Vibrating Egg App Controlled
  £120.85 £86.32

Masturbators

Yes, masturbators can also be controlled worldwide via an app. Do you or your partner want to explore different vibrations? Guess what, you can! If you or your partner also has the Lovense G-Spot Vibrator Nora, you can make both toys move to each other’s rhythm with the Lovense masturbators. Enjoy!

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  Lovense - Max 2 Masturbator
  Lovense
  £112.22
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  Lovense - Calor Depth - App Controlled Automatic Masturbator
  Lovense
  £94.95

Panty vibrators

This is something you’ll definitely want to add to your everyday must-haves! When your partner puts a portable overlay vibrator in her panties, you can tease her at the most unexpected moments. This way, you can still go shopping “together”. 😉

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  Magic Motion - Nyx Smart Panties Vibrator App Controlled
  Magic Motion
  £60.42
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  Love Distance Mag - Panty Vibrator App Controlled
  £120.85 £43.16

Butt plugs

If you want to try out or continue developing your anal play, you’ll have a blast with these remote-controlled vibrating butt plugs. The Lovense Hush 2 can also vibrate to music or your voice. Call each other on the phone and let your partner be in control with the app as well, so you’ll hear and feel them.

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  Lovense - Hush 2 Vibrating Anal Plug - size 38 mm
  Lovense
  £112.22
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  Magic Motion - Equinox App-Controlled Vibrating Butt Plug
  Magic Motion
  £58.69

Also read: Butt plugs – the best preparation for anal sex

Prostate vibrators

Want to offer your partner some intense pleasure? Prostate vibrators stimulate the prostate, which can trigger intense orgasms. Since a prostate vibrator is inserted anally, it’s important to take it easy and, of course, use plenty of anal lubricant.

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  Magic Motion - Solstice App Controlled Prostate Vibrator
  Magic Motion
  £58.69
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  SVAKOM - Iker Prostate Vibrator App Controlled
  SVAKOM
  £69.05 £59.56

Cock rings

Cock rings are great for foreplay and make erections last longer. Are you planning to spend an entire evening remotely treating each other to some sexy time? Then use this toy (for a limited time, of course!) to build up the tension together.

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  App Controlled Bond Stimulation Ring For Men - Charcoal Black
  We-Vibe
  £111.36

Clitoral and G-spot stimulation

Want to reach all your favourite spots? We-Vibe‘s air pressure vibrator knows how to take you from climax to climax with air pressure stimulation on your clitoris. And, if you’re a fan of G-spot stimulation, the Lovense Nora Vibrator is the perfect partner in crime. Especially since you can combine it with Lovense’s masturbators!

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  Lovense - Nora vibrator
  Lovense
  £112.22
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  We-Vibe - Melt App Controlled - Midnight Blue
  We-Vibe
  £129.48

A kinky touch

Want to try something kinkier with more dominance and submission in your play? Relinquish control with chastity belts. You decide when your partner gets to loosen them. Tease them by FaceTiming and touching yourself, while your partner can only watch until you say the word. Perhaps they might get to grab one of the above toys… 😉

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  Lockdown Chastity Cage - Large
  LOCKDOWN
  £34.52 £19.85
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  Spiked Leather Confinement Jockstrap
  Strict Leather
  £153.66

Also read: How to use a cock cage

What’s your favourite toy to use in a LAT relationship?