The most useful sex toy tools and accessories

Positions, role play, and sex toys are all nice additions to your sex life. But sometimes you need a little extra help to take it to an even higher level. After all, the smallest things can make a big difference! With the sex toy tools and accessories below, you’ll not only make your sex life easier, but also discover new, exciting options.

Fleshlight accessories

Fleshlight masturbators are one of the most popular sex toys for men, and for good reason. But did you know that you can get even more out of your Fleshlight with sex toy accessories? For example, you can warm up your masturbator before use with a sleeve warmer, so the sleeve feels even more realistic and comfortable. Or you can attach it to a shower mount that you attach to the shower wall, so you can enjoy your Fleshlight hands-free in the shower.

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  Fleshlight - Shower Mount
  Fleshlight
  £25.68
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  Fleshlight Sleeve Warmer
  Fleshlight
  £28.25

It’s important to maintain your masturbator properly so that the sleeve stays supple and soft, doesn’t dry out, and stays clean. You do this by thoroughly cleaning the sleeve with toy cleaner (or mild antibacterial soap) after each use and rinsing it with lukewarm water. Let it dry completely or put it in the Fleshlight Screw Dry. Afterwards, sprinkle maintenance powder on the sleeve to keep the material supple.

Tip: Do you have a Fleshlight Quickshot? There are several adapters available that allow you to still use the Fleshlight accessories.

Lubricant accessories

Lube accessories? Yep! If you’ve ever tried to use or insert lubricant, for example in the vagina, the anus, or in a masturbator, then you know how tricky that can be. But with a lube launcher, you no longer have to worry about this. This is a kind of syringe that you fill with lubricant and insert very easily. A lubricant syringe has the added advantage that you can easily dose the lubricant. You can also use it as a tool to apply your favourite lubricant without spilling it on the penis, a vibrator, a butt plug, etc.

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  CleanStream XL Lubricant Launcher
  CleanStream
  £16.26
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  Lube Shooter
  Trinity Vibes
  £11.98
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  Deep Shot Launcher Lubricant
  CleanStream
  £24.82
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  Silicone Graduated Beads Lube Applicator
  Master Series
  £26.53

Padlocks

Padlocks are most commonly used with penis cages, cuffs, and other bondage items. Metal padlocks are sturdy and last a long time, but the downside is that you can easily lose the keys. Plastic padlocks are a great alternative. You can easily cut them open and they’re numbered, so your sub cannot secretly change the lock themselves without you noticing! Of course, even if you quickly run out of plastic padlocks, it’s useful to have an extra set on hand.

Another good option is to opt for The Key Holder. This is a special padlock with a time lock, where you can easily set a time duration yourself. Once the set time has passed, the padlock will open automatically.

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  The Key Holder Time Lock
  Master Series
  £74.48
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  CB-X Chastity Cage Disposable Locks
  CB-X
  £12.83 £7.87

Position belts and cushions

Experimenting with different positions is a really fun way to discover new things and boost your sex life. Maybe you’ve discovered a position that’s wonderful for you and your partner, but takes a lot of effort. Or perhaps you can’t maintain certain positions properly because of physical issues. For situations like that, you can use sex aids like position belts, sex straps, and sex pillows.

Sustain a difficult sex position longer with a sex pillow!

A sex strap is a simple strap with loops on the side for a good grip. This allows you to thrust harder and deeper when doing it doggy style. Position belts generally have more options than sex straps, thanks in part to adjustable straps and soft pads. They allow you to stay in a certain position for longer. Sex pillows often come with handles or cuffs so that you or your partner can be secured in a certain position or just feel more comfortable in any position.

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  Booty Tape - Buttock Spreader
  Easytoys Fetish Collection
  £34.24 £18.83
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  Mount Me Inflatable Sex Position Pillow
  Frisky
  £65.92
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  Pillow & Ankle Cuffs Leg Position Strap
  Easytoys Fetish Collection
  £77.05 £59.93
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  Ass Up Doggy Style Position Strap
  Frisky
  £19.68 £8.55

Bondage accessories

If you love bondage, there are some accessories that are must-haves for your collection. Different types of hooks and chains can easily take your bondage game to a new level. With these handy tools, you can attach cuffs, collars, ropes, and other bondage toys to each other. This way, you create even more possibilities and set up your bondage game exactly the way you want. A carabiner or bondage scissors also provide extra safety, so you can enjoy some carefree sexy play!

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  Karabin
  You2Toys
  £4.27
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  Metal Chain 50cm
  You2Toys
  £12.83
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  Bondage Scissors
  Sinner Gear Unbendable
  £10.27 £6.84
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  Carabiner Clip - Silver
  Easytoys Fetish Collection
  £12.83 £5.98

Also read: Bondage techniques for the bedroom explained

Wand vibrator attachments

The wand vibrator itself is a very versatile toy because of all its stimulation possibilities, but with an attachment unit, you can take things even further! There’s a wide range of attachments in many different shapes and sizes. You can easily turn your wand vibrator into a masturbator, a rabbit vibrator, a G-spot/prostate vibrator, or a bunny stimulator. Easy does it!

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  Masturbator Wand Attachment - Clear
  EasyToys - Wand Collection
  £21.40 £12.83
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  Easytoys Spiral Wand Attachment - Pink
  EasyToys - Wand Collection
  £17.12 £11.12

Lingerie/outfit accessories

Adorning your body or wearing a sexy outfit or costume can give your bedroom adventures that extra bit of excitement and thrill. But when creating the perfect look, you can always use some handy accessories to make things easier. For example, a wig cap is indispensable when wearing a sexy wig. This keeps your own hair from coming out from under the wig and keeps the wig firmly in place. Body tape or an adhesive bra can also give an outfit that little bit extra. Or complete your look with pretty nipple stickers!

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  Wig Cap - Skin Colour
  £4.27 £3.42
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  Steal The Show Pasties
  £8.55 £4.28
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  Silicone Push-Up Adhesive Bra
  Be Wicked
  £19.68 £10.83
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  Smooth Invisible Adhesive Bra - Black
  Be Wicked
  £12.83 £7.11

Which sex toy accessory is indispensable in your bedside table? Let us know in a comment!