What is cybersex and how does it work? 💞
Have you met someone online or is your partner travelling to a distant country? Would you still like to be intimate with each other? Then perhaps cybersex is the solution! From sexting to webcam sex, cybersex comes in all shapes and sizes. The question is: how can you convince your remote partner…?
What is cybersex?
Cybersex (also known as computer sex or internet sex) is virtual sex through the web! It can involve sending sexy messages or even live contact, for example via your webcam. It’s often accompanied by masturbation. By stimulating each other’s fantasy, you arouse each other and help each other reach a climax.
Benefits
When you’re not near each other, cybering allows you to still have an intimate session. This is great for partners in a long-distance relationship. If you want to explore your sexuality further without physical or social barriers, cybersex can also be a great starting point.
Disadvantages
With anonymous cybersex, you don’t know who is at the other end of the screen. This means you can be fooled in several ways. Someone could be underage, spread the explicit material you share with them, or catfish you. That’s why it’s very important that you know who you’re dealing with and that you can trust them!
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How does cybersex work?
Sexting
The most common form of cybersex is ‘sexting’. Sexting is the exchange of sexually explicit messages via mobile phone (for example, using apps such as WhatsApp, Facebook, and Snapchat). It often involves dirty talk in text form, but sexting also involves sharing sexy photos, videos, and voice messages.
Role-playing
A similar variant of cybersex is ‘role-playing’. In this case, a sex scenario is written between the partners (or their fictional characters). This role-playing can be done via social media, but it also occurs in online games such as Second Life and dedicated chat rooms.
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Phone sex and webcam sex
Is taking turns sending messages not personal enough, or do you prefer to have both hands at your disposal? Then you can also opt for “live” phone sex or webcam sex. By simply calling or video calling, you add an exciting dimension to cybersex.
Camgirls and camboys
Maybe you have come across them before, the so-called ‘cam models’. There are countless websites where you can watch the livestreams of camboys and camgirls. They seduce and tease viewers by talking to them, stripping, or playing with themselves.
Viewers can chat with them or tip them to increase the intensity of their sex toy, as webcam models often use app-controlled toys. If you’re willing to pay, you can also get a private show. This allows you to make special requests for specific things you want to see.
Teledildonics
Would you like to make your cybersex experience even more intimate? Then you could use teledildonics! Teledildonics are toys that work remotely, as used by many camgirls and camboys. But the beauty of it is that you can also connect certain sex toys with each other, so that they are attuned to each other and it feels even more as if you’re having real sex. Take for example the toys below from Lovense.
Patreon and OnlyFans
More and more people are creating and sharing their own content, including spicy content! On platforms like OnlyFans and Patreon, you can find a lot of it. From ASMR videos and sexy photos, to personalised videos and private messages via social media, you name it, it’s there.
To get access to the exclusive content on someone’s Patreon or OnlyFans, you can purchase subscriptions with different tiers. What you have to realise is that no matter how personal the content shared with you is, you are paying for a service or product. It’s not someone’s true and romantic interest. So… don’t be a creep.
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Virtual Reality
We already talked about role-playing in video games, but virtual reality (VR) is also getting more advanced and popular as the years go by. More and more people are wondering what virtual sex in games will look like in a few years’ time.
There are currently VR games in which you can move your whole body and communicate with other players, such as VRChat. But VR games that are really made for virtual sex at a distance, that’s something we can only keep wishing for, at least for now…
“More and more people are wondering what virtual sex in games will look like in a few years’ time.”
Nevertheless, there’s already a great selection of VR porn available, for example on VR Bangers and PornHub. Some videos can even be connected to teledildonics, bringing you even closer to the real sensation of sex! If you already have VR glasses, there are also websites offering porn games in VR. However, these are usually intended for a single player.
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