How to use a couples’ vibrator

Most people immediately think of solo masturbation when they think of sex toys. But there are plenty of toys available nowadays that you can use together, at the same time! A perfect example is the immensely popular couples’ vibrator. Now you’re wondering: how does a couples’ toy work? Read on to find out!

Enjoying a couples’ vibrator together

One of the most popular couples’ toys is the couples’ vibrator. This vibrating toy is meant to be used during penetrative sex, so that you can enjoy the vibrations together.

What’s the best way to use this toy?

• Internal part for G-spot stimulation
• External part for clitoral stimulation
• For use during penetration
• Vibrations that satisfy both partners

The couples’ vibrator consists of an internal and external part, both of which emit vibrations. The narrow part is inserted by the woman vaginally and stimulates her G-spot, while the external part rests on her clitoris. The part that’s inserted is designed to leave enough room for penetration. This way, he can also enjoy the vibrations.

Did you know... penetration with an inserted couples’ vibrator can make him enjoy himself even more by making the vagina tighter?

We-vibe

We-Vibe is the brand that put the couples’ vibrator on the map. The We-Vibe Sync is a couple vibrator with an adjustable intermediate piece, so the toy can be adjusted to fit every couple perfectly. With the proper fit, the toy remains in place.

We-Vibe toys come with a remote control. But what makes the toys so unique is that they can be connected to your mobile phone. Through the We-Connect app, you can control your We-Vibe yourself. You can also use this app to create your own vibration patterns.

What other couples’ vibrators are out there?

Lelo Ida

The Lelo Ida is a luxury toy that works in a similar way to the couples’ vibrator by We-Vibe. What sets this toy apart, however, is the rotating function of the part that’s inserted vaginally. The included remote control also features SenseMotion technology. This means that the toy reacts to the movements you make with the remote control.

Also suitable for solo use!

Satisfyer pro-4-couples

This innovative toy by Satisfyer, the Satisfyer Pro 4 Couples, is specially designed to be used during sex. The external part consists of an air pressure vibrator. The clitoris is stimulated through air pressure waves, while the inner part gives vibrations that stimulate both partners. A couples’ vibrator is also great for lesbian couples. One partner can insert the toy, while the other sits on top of her and enjoys the vibrations.

Other options:

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  Pair Vibrator
  Teazers
  £77.44 £43.02
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  Naughty And Nice Vibrating Couple's Toy
  EasyToys Online Only
  £30.11 £15.49

Tips for using a couples’ vibrator

Use lubricant

Having sex with a sex toy may take some getting used to. Of course, the most important thing is that you both enjoy it. To make it as comfortable as possible, we recommend using lubricant so that penetration goes smoothly. Check the material of your couples’ toy before use. Toys made of silicone do not combine well with silicone-based lubricant. In that case, it’s better to choose a water-based lubricant.

Different positions

Most couples’ vibrators are designed so that you can enjoy them in any position you like, without the toy shifting. Still, it’s natural that not every position feels equally comfortable for everyone. Therefore, we recommend that you experiment to find out which positions feel good for you and which don’t.

Tip: Doggy style is a great position for using a couples’ vibrator. If necessary, the woman can hold the toy. Missionary, cowgirl, and sideways are also suitable positions.

Other sex toys for couples

The above couples’ toys are suitable for both internal and external use. To enjoy a toy together, you can also use other types of couples’ toys:

• The strap-on dildo. This is a toy that – in combination with a harness – is worn by a woman. In this way, she has a ‘penis’ with which she can penetrate her partner. There are also satisfy the wearer as well.
• The straight double dildo. This double dildo is an elongated model, with the shape of a penis at both ends. Due to the flexible material, it’s suitable for partner use. The ends can be inserted both vaginally and anally.
• Vibrating cock ring. A classic toy that’s perfect for partner use. The man can wear the ring around his penis during sex, while the vibrating part rests on her clitoris.
• The sex swing. This is an attachment that you can use together during sex. The swing makes it possible to enjoy sex in a unique way in different positions.

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  Cockring with Vibrator - Purple
  EasyToys Online Only
  £12.90 £7.74
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  Leg & Bum Support Over The Door Swing
  Easytoys Fetish Collection
  £68.83 £43.02
• 
  Double Ended Dildo
  EasyToys Dildo Collection
  £51.62 £27.53
• 
  Silicone Strap-On - Bended
  Easytoys Fetish Collection
  £34.41 £18.92

Remote sex

Enjoying sex together isn’t always possible for everyone. However, nowadays it’s quite easy to have sex ‘with each other’ from a distance. We-Vibe toys can be connected to your mobile phone. Through the We Connect app, the toy can be controlled from any location around the world.

• Let your partner remotely control your We-Vibe toy via the app.
• Multiple toys can be linked simultaneously, giving you control over each other’s toys.

How would you like to use a couples’ toy? Or do you already have experience? Let us know!