The 7 secret rules for buying sexy gifts for women

Buying sexy gifts, it’s still a challenge! Valentine’s Day shopping for your wife, girlfriend, or boyfriend can be a depressing prospect, especially if you’ve missed the mark before. But don’t worry this year, we’ll share our seven secret rules on how to buy the perfect sexy gift for your partner.

Secret Rule 1: Find out what she likes

This may seem too obvious, but you’d be surprised how many men just go out and buy gifts without knowing what their partner actually wants. If your girlfriend or wife likes sporty underwear, then buying and wrapping a toaster and kettle is of little use. The same goes for buying sexy gifts.

“If your girlfriend or wife likes sporty underwear, then buying and wrapping a toaster and kettle is of little use. The same goes for buying sexy gifts.”

You should have some idea of what your partner likes and dislikes in the bedroom. If you’re not sure, ask them. For example, find out if G-Spot vibrators do more for her than mini vibrators; if she likes sexy babydolls more than body stockings and if she prefers naughty sex games to vibrating cock rings.

Secret Rule 2: Listen to the hints

Women are incredibly good at giving hints, so listen carefully and subtly ask her what she’d really like for Valentine’s Day. Go window-shopping with your girlfriend and check out some lingerie shops – discover what she likes! You might notice that she likes classic black or white lingerie, or that she prefers lots of lace to drive you crazy and feel sexy herself.

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  Bra Suspender Set S
  Cottelli Collection
  £49.68

Secret Rule 3: Buy something for your girlfriend, not for yourself!

You may have had your eye on that surround-sound home cinema for months, but buying it for your partner as a present is just not okay! How would you like it if she bought you a facial steamer on the pretext that you need it, when she knows full well that she’ll mostly use it herself? Exactly.

“How would you like it if she bought a facial steamer on the pretext that you need it, when she knows very well that she’ll use it ten times as often herself?”

Try to hold back when picking gifts for your girlfriend. If you follow our first Secret Rule, you’ll have a rough idea of what she wants. So if she wants a pink vibrator or a sexy dress, hold back and don’t buy her a bondage set unless she’s clearly said she wants one! Does your partner want an erotic gift but finds it hard to choose? We also have erotic gift packages in our web shop!

Also read: 7 reasons why women love lingerie

Secret Rule 4: Stick to the budget

Sexy gifts don’t have to cost a lot of money. For example, think of a vibrating penis ring. This little bad boy will give you both a great orgasm, without costing too much. Remember; stick to what your girlfriend wants. Buy her the best you can afford, but don’t go into debt for a gift.

Secret Rule 5: Buy romantic, sexy gifts

Buying sexy gifts doesn’t mean buying a whole arsenal of sex toys; romantic gifts can be just as sexy. It can happen that your girlfriend, lover, or spouse has her down days, when naughty things are low on her priority list. At those moments, it’s important to pay a lot of attention to the atmosphere. The best place to start is with a relaxing bath with wonderful oils in it and scented candles all around.

Romantic gifts can be just as sexy.”

Pour her a glass of wine and have a nice long bath together. When she’s completely relaxed, take her to the bedroom where you have made the vibe very romantic with rose petals and a variety of romantic gifts, massage oils, feathers, and naughty games to get her in the mood slowly and gently.

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  Exotiq Massage Candle Ylang Ylang - 200g
  Exotiq Massage
  £25.69 £17.13
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  Lavender/Honey Bath Oil
  £36.83

Secret Rule 6: Size does matter

If you’ve found out that your girlfriend wants a vibrator for Valentine’s Day, great. But don’t just buy the first vibrator you see. Different women need different sizes when it comes to their vibrator, so the only way to figure out which one to buy is by asking her.

Don’t be offended if the vibrator she wants is twice the size of your own penis – this vibrating wonder can become your best friend if you want to drive your girlfriend crazy between the sheets. Imagine how she’ll feel when both you and this super-fast friend give her your full attention.

Secret Rule 7: Be practical

Sex toys are, of course, a lot of fun, but you should think about your safety. Is your girlfriend allergic to latex? Many toys are made of that, so limit yourself to toys made of plastic, skin-safe rubber, or silicone. Another practical consideration is lubricant. Lube can turn relaxed sex into wild sex with just a few drops of great slipperiness, so if your girlfriend is less likely to get wet, it’s best to invest in a good lube.

If you can find the balance between safety and pleasure, the sexual possibilities are endless. Now that’s a sexy gift!

“Lubricant can turn relaxed sex into wild sex with just a few drops of amazing slipperiness.”

Have you already scored a nice Valentine gift for your partner?