Love Lessons #3 – Masturbating for experts

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17-05-2021 · 867 views · 0 comments

Welcome to masturbation for experts! We assume you’ve thoroughly explored our advanced masturbation techniques and that you’re ready for new challenges to spice up your solo session. In this blog, we’ll cover masturbation with your partner, challenging masturbation tasks you can do as a couple, and some masturbation techniques for experts!

Masturbating with your partner

Masturbating with your partner may feel a little awkward or scary at first, but it can be a very intimate way of having solo sex. It can also offer some excellent foreplay. It’s very exciting to see your partner enjoying themselves while you’re busy playing with yourself!

Watching your partner masturbate can also be very informative for both of you. You can see exactly what your partner likes, which will come in handy the next time you engage in foreplay!

Masturbation tasks

Are you in a relationship and do you not masturbate as much anymore? Start a little competition with your partner. You can challenge each other with fun tasks that make masturbation more exciting and give both of you extra goals besides reaching an orgasm.

Are you ready for a masturbation challenge?
Check out our challenge for men or our challenge for women

Masturbating for men

Sex toys for men – we’re expanding!

Prostate stimulators

Have you already worn out your masturbators? Then it’s time to expand your range of sex toys. Go for something besides a toy for your member. We’d like to introduce you to prostate toys! A prostate toy stimulates, as the name suggests, your prostate. The prostate is also called the male G-spot and can be stimulated with a similar sex toy. Prostate dildos and prostate vibrators have a curved shaft and a spherical head that are perfect for applying pressure.

Before you start playing with a sex toy like this, it’s important that you have enough lubricant at hand. Preferably a silicone-based lubricant. Silicone lubricant stays smooth longer and doesn’t need to be applied as often. You apply this lubricant on the anus and on the toy itself. Make sure that you never use silicone lubricant in combination with silicone sex toys, as this will affect the material of the toy.

To reach the prostate, it’s best to lie on your back and pull up your knees. Insert the toy with the tip pointing towards your navel. The prostate is located about 5 centimetres deep inside the anus and feels a bit like a walnut. By rubbing the prostate toy against this spot, you experience a feeling of excitement and can even reach a climax!

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Stimulating your perineum

Don’t want to put something up your ass right away? You can also stimulate your prostate externally by playing with your perineum. The perineum lies between your scrotum and anus. It’s a very sensitive area, especially for men. By massaging the perineum, the prostate can also be stimulated. It can even give you a splashing orgasm!

Put pressure on the perineum with two fingers and hold it for a while
Move a little bit at a time, towards the anus
For many men, the spot just behind the anus is the sweet spot, so build up to it slowly
A number of prostate toys have an ‘arm’ that rests on the perineum and stimulates it

Stimulating your prostate

We’ve already talked about prostate toys in this blog. Still, you can also stimulate this sensitive spot using your fingers. As always, make sure you have enough lubricant at hand. If you don’t like the idea of going inside with your finger, you can also put a condom on your finger or use an anal douche beforehand. With an anal douche, you can be sure that everything stays clean 😉

The easiest way to reach the prostate is to lie on your back and pull up your knees towards your chest. Make sure you feel relaxed and that you’ve applied enough anal lubricant to your finger and around the anus. With the palm of your hand facing down, you can then insert a finger. Move the finger towards your navel until, after about 5 centimetres, you feel a bulge the size of a walnut: that’s the prostate!

You can then massage the prostate by rubbing it gently or by applying rhythmic pressure to it. Make sure you can fully concentrate on this technique and that you’ve cleared your mind beforehand. You’ll surely reach an incredible orgasm!

Masturbating for women

Sex toys for women – step up your game

In masturbating for beginners, we already discussed a number of sex toys you can start with when you’re not as familiar with sex toys. This time, we’ll discuss a number of toys that offer just that little bit of extra stimulation and therefore don’t really qualify as sex toys for beginners.

Wand vibrator

A wand vibrator is a powerful and multifunctional sex toy. Wand massagers are, as the name already suggests, meant for giving massages. In addition, the toys can also be used for external stimulation of the vagina. The vibrator gives off powerful vibrations which are certainly not suitable for sex toy beginners. Experience with sex toys is a must (provided you also want to use the toy for stimulation)!

The vibrators have a round head and a flexible neck, which makes them move perfectly with the contours of your body. Besides, there are different attachments for wand massagers available to give you more stimulation. Would you like to have a G-spot vibrator in addition to your wand massager? Buying a G-spot attachment is also possible!

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G-spot vibrator

Many women find it difficult to come from penetration alone. Often, stimulation of the clitoris is also needed to reach a climax. Would you still love to work towards a vaginal orgasm? A G-spot vibrator is definitely worth considering!

The G-spot is located 3 to 5 cm deep inside the vagina, on the side of your abdomen. Stimulating this spot is usually very arousing for many women and can lead to an overwhelming orgasm. A G-spot vibrator has a curve in the shaft and a firm round head, specially designed to stimulate this sensitive spot. When you bring the vibrator inside towards your navel, you should feel a spongy spot. This is your G-spot. Experiment with the different vibration modes and see what works best for you.

Double stimulation!

A rabbit vibrator has a part that can be inserted and a part for clitoral stimulation. Tarzan vibrators combine clitoral stimulation with stimulation of the G-spot. If you’re interested in this, you should look closely at the formation of the shaft. If it has a curve, then it can also stimulate your G-spot. If you want to stimulate your two hotspots simultaneously, a tarzan vibrator is a great option!

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G-spot stimulation

The easiest way to find your G-spot is to lie on your back or stomach. Place the palm of your hand on your vulva and go inside with one finger. Make a ‘come here’ gesture towards your pubic bone. You should feel a spongy tissue, about the size of a bean, on the side of your abdomen. You can stimulate the G-spot by applying pressure on this spot or by gently rubbing it.

When you apply pressure to this spot, you may feel the need to pee. This is because the G-spot shares a nerve pathway with the bladder. This might make it a bit difficult to relax properly. Make sure you’ve used the bathroom beforehand!

Did you know that… you can squirt by stimulating the G-spot?

Squirting

By applying pressure on the G-spot, some women are able to ejaculate. Female ejaculation, often called ‘squirting’, is only possible when you’re fully relaxed and aroused. If you find it difficult to stimulate the G-spot with your fingers, a G-spot vibrator is an excellent alternative. Just before you feel yourself coming, push your pelvic floor muscles out instead of contracting them. This increases the chance of a successful squirt!

You’re all set to start masturbating! Were these masturbation tips useful to you?

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