24 sexy roleplay ideas to spice up your sex life

Role-playing is an easy way to make your sex life more exciting. During role-play, you and your partner can make all your sexual fantasies come true. There are endless ideas that you can act out – the sky’s the limit! To get you started, we’ve put together 24 sexy role-play ideas for you!

The role of roleplay

Role-playing games can play an important role for couples whose relationship has ended up in a bit of a rut. During a sexy role play, not only can you break through it, but you can also discuss things that used to be taboo. Things that you might not dare to do in normal life, or which you might find strange, you can do now, as you take on the role of someone else. It’s fun to experiment with clothes and props, but if you don’t have the means for that, just your creativity and imagination will suffice too.😉

1. Firefighter

A uniform, heroic deeds, heat, fire…A strong guy putting out your fire with his hose. I mean… come on. Doesn’t everyone find this extremely arousing?

2. Maid

Dress up as a sexy maid and dust the house in the sexiest way possible. Your partner doesn’t have to do anything except watch. Eventually, he’ll ask if you can clean his trousers…

3. The handyman/woman

It’s just sexy when someone’s DIY savvy. Whether it’s laying laminate or changing a light bulb… Seeing someone who knows how to use their hands just gets us there!

4. Plumber

Need some help with that pipe?

When role-playing, it’s okay to laugh! Sometimes it can be really funny. You don’t have to hide it.

5. Teacher

Innocent student and sexy teacher. We all know this role-playing game, but have you tried it? If not, this is definitely worth a try. It’s a good role-play to start with and it’s easy to perform.

6. Strangers

First, you meet in a pub or restaurant where you’re both eating out with friends. Look at each other seductively and walk towards each other afterwards. Pretend you don’t know each other. Seduce each other and ask your partner, “the stranger”, to go home with you.

7. Taxi!

Roleplay in the car… why not? Have your partner pick you up with the car, and then seduce him (obviously not too much while driving). Park the car somewhere and enjoy each other!

8. Masseur

This one needs no explanation, does it? Of course this massage finishes with a happy ending.

9. Painter and muse

Draw me like one of your French girls, Jack. Lie naked in front of your partner and let them paint your body with as much attention to detail as possible. In this way, every part of your body will be observed in great detail.

10. Hollywood

One of you plays a starting actor/actress and the other an important producer. What will the producer ask of you for a big role in a good film? 😉

11. Innocent

Sex? What’s that? Pretend you have no idea what sex is and let your partner explain everything step by step in detail and, of course, let them show you.

12. Voyeur

Sit on opposite sides of the room and masturbate while watching your partner. Make it even more exciting by doing this “secretly”. For example, video call each other and put the phone down so it looks like a hidden camera. Sit in a different room and enjoy each other while you masturbate.

13. Police

“Madam, you are under arrest. We have received several reports that you are in possession of an illegally sexy body.” A set of handcuffs completes this role play, of course.

14. Everything is allowed

Agree on a safe word beforehand and decide which of you is in charge this time. Also make sure to discuss beforehand what you really do not want. Furthermore, one of you can be the boss this time, and the other must obey.

Also read: An introduction to BDSM

15. Plane sex

You probably have heard it before. On the plane, the two of you secretly go to the toilet for some aeroplane sex. Of course, you can also do this on the ground, in a restaurant, or at home! Walk past your partner and tell him that you’ll meet in the toilet in 3 minutes.

16. Blindfolded sex

If you block one of your senses, the others will become more sensitive. The blindfold can also help you let go of your inhibitions.

17. Doctor/nurse

The fact that this roleplay is terribly cliché doesn’t matter at all, does it?

18. Different language

Just once, speak to each other in a different language during sex. In this way, you might dare to say things that you wouldn’t say otherwise.

19. Porn stars

Re-enact a scene from your favourite porn film.

20. The boss

Your boss calls you to his office because you’ve done something wrong. How do you apologise?

21. Stripper

Somebody come get her, she’s dancing like a stripper…

22. Reversed rolls

Change roles for a night. Think about pegging (strap-on dildo), but of course, the options are endless. Are you usually submissive and does your partner usually decide what and how you do it? Switch it up this time.

23. Someone else

Admit it, you have a celebrity crush, and so does your partner. Dress up as each other’s crush and totally immerse yourself in that person. This time you are each other’s (not so) secret crush. How sexy.

24. Silent sex

It’s wonderful to let yourself go during sex and to let out your primal screams. But try being quiet… You’ll see that your sex experience will be completely different.

Do you have a fun addition to this list? Let us know!