The 10 most common fetishes 👣
We all know of or have them: sexual fantasies. From outdoor sex to golden showers, fantasies come in all shapes and sizes. But when is your fantasy a fetish and what types of fetishes are there? On Fetish Friday, we highlight 10 different fetishes. Read on!
1 -🏆 BDSM
Number one is BDSM. Although this is a particular type of sex, it can certainly be considered a fetish. BDSM stands for Bondage & Discipline, Domination & Submission and Sadism Masochism. BDSM play occurs between two partners: the Dominant (dom) and the submissive (sub). The Dom has the power over the sub and determines the course of the session. In the past, this form of sex was mostly associated with dark basements and voluntary ‘abuse’. Fortunately, this has changed thanks in part to the book and film series 50 Shades of Grey. Want to know more about BDSM? Find out more here!
2 -🏆 Foot fetish
There are far more foot fetishists than people think. Think about it; you probably know someone who has some form of foot fetishism. It’s the most common fetish that isn’t directly related to sex. People with this fetish just love feet and everything that has to do with them. Think for example of socks, shoes, stockings, etc. According to neurologist Sigmund Freud, this fetish can be explained by the fact that a foot is said to resemble a penis. Yes, you may not entirely agree with this comparison, but it’s true that people with a foot fetish like to lick and suck on someone’s feet or toes. And what else do people like to lick and suck? Exactly 😉 .
3 -🏆 Role Play
Yes, this is also a fetish. Just because you’ve tried it doesn’t mean you have this fetish but, if you experience a great deal of excitement during role-playing, you may have a role-playing fetish. Sexual role-playing involves two or more people playing different roles in a sexual scenario. Role-playing can take on any form of sexual fantasy. For example, you can play nurse and patient, policeman and villain, or teacher and naughty student with your partner. Usually you also wear clothes or accessories that suit your role, so the nurse wears a nurses’ uniform and the policeman a police uniform.
Also read: 24 sexy roleplay ideas to spice up your sex life
4 -🏆 Rubber, leather and latex
This fetish relates to people who get sexual pleasure from wearing clothes made of rubber, leather, or latex. They also find the sight of their partner wearing clothes made of these materials very exciting. This fetish can range from wearing a tight catsuit to a leather gas mask.
5 -🏆 Voyeurism and exhibitionism
Researchers from the Carolina Institute have shown in studies that one in three people enjoy watching sex. These people usually get turned on when they see people getting dressed, bathing, or having sex. Most voyeurs are men who watch porn online. Exhibitionism is when you enjoy being watched in a sexual way, for example at a nude beach. There are even certain nightclubs where you can have sex in a room while being watched through peepholes by other people. Pretty hot, right?
6 -🏆 Spanking
Spanking is considered one of the most sexual fetishes. Why do so many people like spanking? Because it’s very accessible. Everyone has experienced an erotic spanking of their partner’s buttocks. It’s a fairly simple form of adding some pleasurable pain to your sex life. And when the bum is spanked with certain pressure and force, the vibrations can create an exciting sensation in the genitals. Still, spanking can also be part of BDSM where it’s humiliating for one partner (who is being spanked) and gives the other (who is giving the spankings) a feeling of power. You can spank with your hands, but many also use a special whip.
Also read: 10 sex taboos that are perfectly normal
7 -🏆 Wearing the clothes of the opposite sex
A common fetish involves wearing the clothes of the opposite sex; so men wearing women’s clothes and accessories and vice versa. It’s mainly men who are interested in this fetish, but there are also plenty of women who find wearing men’s clothes very erotic and sensual.
8 -🏆 Pee and sex
Water sports, also known as golden showers or urophilia, is a fetish that’s more common than you might initially think. In this fetish, a person pees on their partner during foreplay or sex. Some people simply call this pee sex. People who practice this kind of sex get excited by seeing, smelling, feeling, or tasting urine. There are several reasons why people enjoy it:
🚿- The warm, wet feeling of urine feels good on the body;
🚿- The taste of pee is exciting;
🚿- The taboo surrounding it makes it feel exciting.
There is nothing wrong with the urine of a healthy person. But if the person urinating has a sexually transmitted disease, it can be very dangerous if the urine comes into contact with the mucous membranes of the partner. If you’re interested in this form of sex, make sure that you and your partner do an STI test beforehand.
9 -🏆 Swinging and group sex
Swinging means that a (married) couple has sex with another couple. This always happens with full consent of everyone involved. Usually, the woman of one couple goes to bed with the man of the other couple and vice versa. So, in fact, you’re simply engaging in some partner swapping. Couples who practice swinging are called swingers. This fetish can have a positive or negative effect on the relationship: jealousy may arise, partners may trust each other less, and it’s possible that participants may develop feelings for their swing partner. Still, this form of partner exchange can also breathe new life into a relationship. Group sex speaks for itself!
Also read: “I want to try swinging. How do I tell my partner?”
10 -🏆 Adult babies
Last but not least, adult babies, is an extremely popular fetish. These adult babies – also known as diaper adults – are mature people who enjoy acting like babies. They can be either men or women, but it’s usually men that are more attracted to this fetish. They enjoy wearing nappies, being given the bottle, and they sometimes even wear baby clothes. Adult babies like to have an adult telling them what they can and cannot do and taking care of them. Some adult babies are looking for the attention they missed when they were younger.
What’s your fetish? Let us know your guilty pleasure!
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