Anal orgasm – how to reach more intense orgasms!

Do you want to increase your chances of orgasm or are you looking for ways to reach a more intense climax? Then you might want to read up on anal orgasms! Your anus contains countless nerve endings that can be stimulated in many different ways. In this blog, we’ll tell you how you can do that, but first we’ll explain exactly how an anal orgasm works.

Also read: First time anal sex – tips for beginners

About anal orgasms

Let’s just cut to the chase already: the anal orgasm doesn’t really exist. That may sound a little strange to you, but it’s not that strange at all. Despite the fact that your anus contains a lot of nerve endings, those nerves are not made for reaching orgasms. The vagina, clitoris, glans, and prostate, on the other hand, are.

Research shows that 94% of women orgasmed during anal sex.

Because of those many nerve endings, it can be very pleasant to stimulate the anus, just as it can feel nice to massage nipples or balls. An intense “anal orgasm” is achieved when you stimulate your sphincter muscle together with your other erogenous zones. Your clitoris, vagina, or glans will provide the orgasm, but the anal stimulation can make your climax more intense.

The preparation: lubricant

Always lubricate your fingers, anus, and any sex toy with lubricant. Your anus does not moisturise itself the way the vagina does. To prevent painful friction and make insertion easier, lube is a must. Use a thick lubricant that doesn’t “dry up” too quickly. Some gels are specifically made for your anus: anal lubricants. Be careful with silicone-based lubricants, though. Silicone anal toys are not compatible with gels of the same material. The silicones can absorb each other and there’s a chance that your toy will be damaged.

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  EasyGlide Anal Lubricant - 150 ml
  EasyGlide
  £14.55 £8.56
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  EasyGlide Anal Relaxing Lubricant - 150 ml
  EasyGlide
  £15.41 £8.56

Also read: The complete lube guide for better sex

Tips: anal orgasm for women

It’s not likely you’ll cum from only anal stimulation. That’s why it’s important that you also pleasure the vagina and/or clitoris. Decide for yourself what you like best. Your clitoris or vagina can best be stimulated with your fingers, a clitoris vibrator, or a mini vibrator, while massaging your anus with your other hand using a toy.

Stimulating all three

Your orgasm will probably be more intense when you stimulate the clitoris, vagina, and anus at the same time. You can try to massage these three zones with your hands, but it won’t always be easy. No worries! There are sex toys on the market that stimulate all of these erogenous zones at the same time.

Double dildo: A double dildo is a sex toy with two dildo ends. One end is often narrower than the other, which makes it very suitable for double penetration. Insert the thick part at your vagina and the thin part at your anus. With one hand you can massage your clitoris, while you move the dildo with your other hand. Lie on your back or on your side for a comfortable position.

Double vibrators: If you’re looking for a toy that you don’t have to move yourself or if you want something more than just penetration, you’re in the right place with a trio vibrator. Many trio vibrators are similar to a tarzan vibrator, but have an additional part: an anal stimulator. This stimulator may include anal beads or a nub that massages the outside of your sphincter.

Tips: anal orgasm for men

Both gay and straight men can have anal sex. Men can enjoy anal sex in a variety of ways. It gives an extra dimension to your orgasm when you stimulate your glans before and during your climax. While masturbating, you can use an anal sex toy to reach an intense orgasm.

Prostate massage

As a man, you might have heard of it or perhaps already tried it: massaging your prostate. Your prostate is a small organ that’s responsible for creating and transporting sperm fluid. The prostate is extremely sensitive, and you can feel it about 5 cm deep into your anus on the side of your belly. This spot is also called the P-spot. A prostate massage can result in intense and delicious orgasms. You can try it with your fingers, but there are also prostate toys that make massaging your prostate a lot easier.

Prostate toys

Prostate dildos: Prostate dildos have a curved tip that makes it easy to massage the prostate. You can move the dildo up and down yourself to stimulate the right spot.

Prostate vibrators: If you’re looking for something more than just massaging, prostate vibrators might be for you. In addition to being able to move the vibrator up and down, the toy also gives off vibrations that provide extra stimulation to the prostate, which can make your orgasm even more intense!

Want to pick the right model yourself? Check out our prostate stimulators. This gives an overview of all of our prostate dildos and vibrators. Pay attention to the size of the vibrators. After all, you don’t want to end up cheated with a prostate toy that’s way too small or too big!

Anal toys for men and women

You can use your fingers to stimulate your anus, but your nails may be too sharp for the delicate skin of your sphincter. That’s why it’s best to use an anal toy. Do not use toys that are not made specifically for your anus because they can slip inside and get lost due to the lack of a wider base. Several anal toys are on the market:

A butt plug

An anal plug is simply inserted and doesn’t need to be moved. A butt plug is suitable when you like to feel filled up or when you don’t want to actively play with your anus. One butt plug that we recommend is the butt plug set from EasyToys Anal Collection. These butt plugs are easy to insert and the different sizes make it possible to take things to a deeper level.

Also read: Butt plugs – the best preparation for anal sex

Anal beads

If you want to play a little more actively with your anus, anal beads may be more appropriate. An anal chain consists of (sometimes) increasingly larger anal beads. Using them can ensure that you can stretch your sphincter in a gentle, pleasant way.

Tip! Do you feel your orgasm coming on? Slowly pull out the anal chain. The balls will stimulate the nerves in your anus in a great way.

Anal dildo

Do you already have a little more experience with anal play? Then you may want to use an anal dildo. Go for a model that’s no thicker than 3 cm in diameter. You can move the dildo slowly up and down to stimulate your sphincter, but you can also rotate it in small circles to massage the inside of your rectum.

Tip! Increase the pace of stimulation as you approach orgasm.

Vibrating anal toys

These toys are great for when you don’t necessarily want to insert something, but still want to play with your anus. An anal vibrator can be held against your sphincter to stimulate the nerves in that area. If desired, you can also insert the toy. Besides the fact that the vibrations feel pleasant, the vibrations have a relaxing effect on the muscles in and around your anus.

Also read: Anal sex toys – a guide for beginners

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